Finally swinging!

So my wife and I have a date with another couple!

I'd all but given up hope of meeting people via the swingers website that we're on - D finds it a bit repulsive, with pages and pages of genital shots and the occasional message from someone saying "Wanna fuck?".

It was looking like the only way we'd meet anyone was if we tried a club again. Then two weeks ago while we were in bed she asked "Have you found anyone nice on that site yet?"

I hadn't been checking the site regularly for quite a while, so the next day I got back on it and spent a good hour looking at profiles and sending some winks. There were 2 that stood out - neither were "hardcore swingers". We'd had some exchanges with the hardcore variety, they tend to want to meet up quickly and see a face pic immediately. Our speed is more having a chat for a little while then maybe that scarey moment of sending a pic and then possibly never hearing from them again.

So I  started a conversation with one of the two which seemed to be going quite well before kind of just drying up. But then the second couple winked back so I messaged them. Their profile was witty, they sounded nice and they had enough "verifications" to show they were genuine.

We exchanged a few mails and quickly found we had quite a lot in common. At one point I asked if there was anything else they'd like to know and they said they'd like to see what we looked like. They sent a pic of themselves (a lovely looking "normal" couple!) and we sent one of us back. That dreaded moment of waiting to hear back... and then they replied saying we were very cute!

So we've flirted a bit, exchanged real names and have been working on dates to meet up for a social meeting - it looks like we're on for the beginning of August.

They seem really nice, so while I'm feeling just a little nervous I'm more really looking forward to it! D seems to be more into the idea than she ever has been - there's always been a hint of reluctance in her involvement, which I always put down to her thinking the website was so sleazy which made it feel 'wrong'. And it looks like I was right, she's been joining in the email exchanges and was asking her mother about babysitting as soon as the first suggested dates were mentioned.

It'll be strictly social for the first meeting, but if we all get on well I think we'll be aiming for a second meeting much as soon as possible. Their profile suggested "own partner same room" for a first active meeting which sounds like a great start. Having sex in front of and while watching another couple would be incredibly horny... I'd love it if we ended the night by swapping partners just to go down on them and us guys could taste each other's cum inside our women. But one step at a time right? ;)

Male belly piercing - yes or no?

So I've had a nipple piercing for nearly 7 years and still love it. I was never one for jewelry when I was younger - friends had ear rings etc and I was never really interested.

Thst changed after the time I had sex with a guy who had a nipple bar. It looked so sexy! And so lickable.... so for my birthday (my 35th I think) after talking with my wife about it, she got me one as a present. It hurt like hell and took a while to heal, but I loved it. The first few months I kept pulling my shirt up to look at myself in the mirror!

It made me feel sexy. Not just horny (though that too) but when I looked at myself in the mirror or touched it, it made me feel attractive, sexy.

Skip forward a few years and another conversation with the wife. She had a navel piercing when we met but it came out when she was pregnant (and it still hasn't gone back in). It looked really good on her, and indeed does on most women. The first guy I ever had full sex with had one and it looked amazing (he had nipples and Prince Albert too!).

I mentioned that I might quite like one too and she replied "nah, that's too gay."

Don't get her wrong, she's completely comfortable with my bisexuality and wasn't saying "gay" in any kind of negative way. But she didn't think it'd suit.

But I still love the idea, and this week bought a clip-on one: https://www.jobananas.com/clip-on-belly-ring-single-jewel-clear.html

Now I wouldn't necessarily want anything jewelled for a real one, but I figured that if I was buying one then why not one that would look good when I cross dress! For real life a simple "bar bell" type would be fine.

I've thought long and hard about the whole idea. I think D was concerned that it'd be hard to hide - under clothes but also at the pool etc. - and I'd be almost making the statement "I'm gay".

The thing is, I am a bit gay - why worry about showing it?

So the question - do belly piercings look good on guys?